Why Character Still Matters

In this post I'm not going to talk about technology and rather I'm going to tackle a issue that I believe is being thrown under the rug in our society today. And that is the subject of character, honor and integrity. In today's society this is hard to find among people. As an example look at the movies that are shown in theater's now a days. Personally if you look at the movies that were made 5 or 6 years ago you will find that for the most part these movies don't have the same things that go on in the movies that we see now a days. The movies and TV shows being made now have no morality in them at all compared to a few years ago. This is evident as it is clearly pinned out in these movies how the dismantling of the family unit is defined as well as how men treat their wives. This brings me to my next point and primary focus of this post "Character In Relationships." This is a biblical principal that (whether you believe in the Bible not) applies to relationships today. In today's relationships between teens and even young adults is this kind of weird relationships based on petty things. By petty things I think most of the readers of this post know what I am talking about. Let's go back to square one. Let's define what a relationship is. A relationship in the form of "dating" is designed to be a period of time when a man and a woman are exclusive to one another and are starting to form a bond between them and seeing if a long lasting relationship can be held between the two individuals. There is a second flaw when looking at relationships and this has to do with the CHARACTER of the person. Inward character is far better than outward looks as the inward characteristics will last through time. This is important as for you girls out there when finding your husband/boyfriend. Make sure that the particular person is a person who thoroughly believes in principles and lives them out in their daily lives. The way they conduct themselves is a good judgement on how he will treat you as well. And guys make sure that you are looking for the same things inside your "significant other". This is extremely important as well as this is a way to avoid getting into a bad relationship in the first place. After relationships should not be some spur of the moment thing for pleasure rather the purpose as crazy as it seams is to find someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with. By judging someone based on their character and morals before you start a relationship can save you from entering a less than perfect one that was not designed properly with roots based on honesty, integrity, and character.